Packchem91 said:Dayum. Elementary aged. How does it happen so soon.Steve Videtich said:
This is a big problem for me when it comes to these instances. There were so many red flags prior to these events, but nothing was done or things were ignored. We have to change this. It goes back to my earlier post about parenting, discipline, mental health in our society today.
I'll share a story that's makes this hit close to home. My wife has been an elementary school teacher for about 25 years. About 2 months ago, a kid in the school posted a TikTok video talking about going to the school and killing everyone, with a slide show including pics of classmates and teachers. The video was seen by another student and reported by their parent to the school. It was then reported to the school district and the police, where it was handled from there.
When the parents were made aware of the issue, their first question was how and why did the elementary school get involved in this. Not a concern for who was threatened, why did their kid do this. No, why was his school involved. Another example of turning the cheek from the actual problem.
So, then comes the school district trial. The parents of course claimed he was just joking. Sure! They also said he was ADHD and prone to impulsive behavior. So, the district asks the kid, how did you get the pictures. His response, I took screen shots of everyone on his Chrome Book, emailed them to himself, and then made the video at home. So not impulsive behavior, but completely pre-meditated. The parents went on to say that the teachers didn't like him and were just out to get him. The principle presented a folder an inch thick of issues that have presented with this kid in 1 year.
I go back to what I said earlier. We have a serious issue with our young kids and young adults in how they are being raised. There is no discipline, no parenting, no accountability, and no teaching of right and wrong. We continue to not punish people when they do wrong. We look the other way because we excuse their upbringing or situation. Or, we just ignore the fact that there is evidently a problem.
You talk to any school teacher and with a pretty high percentage of accuracy, they can tell you what kind of adult each kid is going to grow into. All while their hands are tied by bad parents and bureaucracy from trying to do right by these kids. So, when these same kids turn around and create these horrific scenes year after year, our first response is to blame the gun.
100% agree parenting is an issue:
- poor kids with one parent
- rich kids with parents who are absent in a different way
- parents try to attack anyone who dares to say little Johnny messed up
My kids went to a high performing HS, where all the kids are college-bound, and I've heard all kinds of stories of parents justify bad behavior to avoid derailing that path.
To add to the situation, the kid prior to this had told other kids that when he was older he was going to come back and shoot up the school. How does that make any of the teachers in the school feel when the potential ongoing threat is there, and nothing will be done about it? Parents said he was just joking.
The kid in Uvalde was said to go around and shoot random people with a BB gun and put in boxing gloves and punch people in the neighborhood. But, nothing was ever done. And then his mom is shocked that he would do something like what he did. GTFOH!!!