Civilized said:
cowboypack02 said:
I'm not responsible for this. There is an old saying about being responsible for yourself. If everyone was responsible for themselves then it would solve 99% of the problem.
We as white people and especially white men have got to stop being so proud that we refuse to admit that we have advantages that other minorities don't have. That doesn't make us spoiled or bad. It does mean it's our job to help put more tools in the toolboxes of Americans that don't look like us. They need to be building a house with the same tools we are; otherwise you're starting to run a race with a huge head start and yelling back over your shoulder that they other runners can catch up if they just try harder.
They need to try hard, but the head start was a big factor in white poeple being ahead.
So let's say the evil white people just up and say "Okay, we have some privilege that nobody can actually point a finger to a specific instance of, but let's just say we agree it exists"
What then? Do white people not accept job offers and suggest they hire a person of color?
Should white kids demand that teachers give kids of color the same grades?
Should whites make sure that their waiters serves tables with people of color first?
What the hell do you want people to do?
I'll tell you what pisses white people off about all this: The overwhelming majority of us do not care what race someone is. We treat everyone the same...."do unto others" and whatnot. We don't consciously or unconsciously practice racism.
Yet EVERYONE gets labeled as such. Just like blacks complain about all of them being looked at differently because such a high percentage of them are involved in criminal activity.
There's no difference.
So what are any of us supposed to do?
All I know to do is to keep on living my life the way I've always done it. Teach my kids to be even better. If each generation does that, it will slowly improve, but there's no way at all to just wave a proverbial magic wand (a.k.a., legislation) that will make any sort of major change instantly.
Does that mean we shouldn't try? No, but any real change will come from the heart and that takes time.
Oh, and you mentioned that "yes, blacks do need to try hard"....yeah, they DO. So when does that part start? They are the ones that can make the most difference in their own outcomes. As I've said and will continue to say, "Education is the key". When they start taking that seriously, the rest of their problems will start to decline, but until they do, there's only so much that is going to change because they will never be on an even footing with whites until they are just as educated.