Sometimes kids want to play for a parents and/or siblings school as a legacy recruit. Sometimes they don't because they want to blaze their own trail. Sometimes a coach can help but sometimes it is fine because you have a great relationship with other coaches and have a different bond personally than your parent or sibling (especially if you did not play for that coach) did. Now he will probably go to BC and if he does then those items made a big difference in his choice but so far he has been open minded to see how HE personally feels about the situation..and where HE wants to go to school and to play for THE COACH that HE feels most comfortable with and maybe to a school that he fits in better at with the academics that he wants, etc.... Good luck to him with his selection.